Abstinence or the rule of abstinence is the principle of analytic reticence and/or frustration within a clinical situation. It is a central feature of psychoanalytic theory – relating especially to the handling of the transference in analysis.
As Sigmund Freud wrote in 1914:
The cure must be carried through in abstinence. I mean by that not physical self-denial alone, nor the denial of every desire....But I want to state the principle that one must permit neediness and yearning to remain as forces favoring work and change.[1]
Later formulations
The validity of the abstinence principle has been rediscovered and reaffirmed in a variety of subsequent analytic traditions.
- Jacques Lacan re-formulated the principle via the concept of 'analytic bridge' – the analyst necessarily playing the part of the unresponding dummy to bring the patient's unconscious motivations out into the open.[2]
- Eric Berne saw analytic frustration as a means of avoiding playing a part in the patient's life script.[3]
- R. D. Laing, in the context of the false self saw analytic abstinence operating in opposition to false self collusion: "It is in terms of basic frustration of the self's search for a collusive complement for false identity that Freud's dictum that analysis should be conducted under conditions of maximal frustration takes on its most cogent meaning".[4]
- D. W. Winnicott in the context of his notion of 'holding' the patient emphasised that understanding through verbal interpretation gave a deeper sense of holding than the physical act, use of which by the therapist could blur the symbolic nature of the analytic space.[5]
Debates
The rule of abstinence has come under increasing challenge by Interpersonal and Intersubjective psychoanalysis,[6] concerned about the inflexibility of the rule, and the way its relentless application may provoke unnecessary hostility, even an iatrogenic transference neurosis.[7]
Defenders of the rule, against the practice of the warm supportive analyst, argue against the easy seductiveness of being overly 'helpful' in a self-defeating way already sketched out by Freud himself.[8] The concept of optimal responsiveness – balancing frustration and gratification from moment to moment – offers some mediation in the dispute.[9]
See also
References
- ↑ Quoted in P. Gay, Freud (1989) p. 302-3
- ↑ Lacan, Jacques (1997). Ecrits. Routledge. pp. 229–30. ISBN 9780415043236.
- ↑ Eric Berne, What Do You Say After You Say Hello? (1974) p. 352
- ↑ Laing, R. D. (1969). Self and Others. Pantheon Books. p. 123. ISBN 9780422731607.
- ↑ P. Casement, Further Learning from the Patient (1990) p. 96-7
- ↑ A. Fayek, The Crisis in Psychoanalysis (2009) p. 37
- ↑ R. Stolorow et al eds., The Intersubjective Perspective (1994) p. xi and p. 146
- ↑ Janet Malcolm, Psychoanalysis: The Impossible Profession (1988) p. 124 and p. 77
- ↑ S. Akhtar, Comprehensive Dictionary of Psychoanalysis (2009) A and O
Further reading
- S. Freud, 'Observations on Transference Love' Standard Edition XII
- J. Lindon, 'Gratification and provision in psychoanalysis: Should we get rid of 'the rule of abstinence'?' Psychoanal. Dialogues (1994) 4:549-582